My fellow islanders Namaskaar! Reading blogs posted by fellow islanders and adhering to some of the ideas contained therein can be an exhilerating and enriching experience. It acts as a de-facto learning experience as most of the write-ups are based on real life situations faced by people. It gives us a platform  wherefrom one can utilise the wealth of experience and knowledge of various people garnered in real life situations . May be it does not solve the real life , real time problem faced by us in true sense yet it gives us an edge in coping with any situation, makes us prepared or at least makes us stronger, gives us that cutting edge. Friends, today , most humbly ,I seek your valued opinion on a topic which is fast becoming an epidemic in our life. Why on some occasions, due to multifarious reasons, we feel absolutely drained out, the coordination between mind and heart fails to take place, we feel placid.............we feel as if you are in a vaccum in our life quite akin to the black hole, we feel as if our whole world is crumbling down. We want to cry aloud but we cannot, we try to run away but we cannot, we make a feeble attempt to face the situation but we cannot.We do shadow boxing as if we are ready to take the bull by the horns but our enterprise fails us. Is this the end of the world for us? the feeling just gets the better of you. In our deepest thoughts we know that we are not putting in an effort to plunge headlong into the so called crisis and face it, but our enthusiasm deserts us. In such a situation , I , Seek your valued opinion my friends so that such black holes become a thing of past and we can signal victory over them wiping them out lock, stock and barrel.