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Saturday 11 October, 2008
 10:15 | 22/Sep/2007 |  15 Comment(s)
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LOVE

Fellow Islanders, Namaskaar! I believe the topic that leaves people intrigued is "LOVE". Now what is love? To the majority love is entwined with expectation. When we  are in love with some one we expect the other to reciprocate , love is believed to be the gate-way to foster a relationship. But once a relationship is born , people in due course seem to loose interest , steam and the freedom and the so called love evaporates in thin air . Then how to create and preserve and augment love? ......separate it from any expectation, give it the required freedom , give it the required space , do not culminate it in a relationship which is akin to conquering someone. Love in conjunction with expectation cajoles the persons involved to crave for the ultimate, they once reached, over and over again leaving them frustrated, confused,  Once you do not have any expectation from the person you are in love with, true love blossoms and creates a closeness that is far greater than any relationship. This closeness is devoid of any one-up-manship and creates varied hues of colours far vibrant than any rainbow. Let our LOVE be like a rose that gives us fragrance , colour and beauty yet expects nothing from us.

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