Dear Islanders, it often happens that one is placed in a situation where taking a decision becomes very difficult . One is caught between the horns of  dilemna whether to use ones head or to use ones heart to arrive at a decision. Friends you will come across various well wishers who will advocate using either the head or the heart but put them in similar situation and they too will  be in a quandry. Taking stock of a situation or doing post mortem becomes easy as one has got a premise whether positive or negative to work upon. It is only when a stand-alone deccision is to be taken that people become shaky. This happens because we carry the load of the dead past and the unborn tomorrow , today, and this load can make even the strongest to falter. Therefore friends lets live for the day , and enjoy the only sure possession at our disposal. Whether to use ones head or the heart to come to a conclusion could well be tackled if we use both and do not rely only on one and remember the MANTRA " FORGIVE AMD FORGET ".  Remember the punch line in the ad for Century Ply " Sab Sahe Mast Rahe"